Dante at Dialectics is a writer who can captivate you with the style and content of his posts, an invitation to the intriguing person that he is. Do drop by for that wonderful adventure.

This is in response to Dante’s Liebster Award 2018, wherein he has posed a number of thought-provoking questions. However, instead of listing the questions and answering them at once, I thought of fleshing out a whole blog post in response to each, a prompt of sorts.

Childhood is always glorified as being the formative years, the simplest periods of our lives when we carry the least burdens. But then, generalization is the death of reality sometimes.

Some of you may have had the worst memories as children – bullying, loss of a loved one, being abandoned. Some of you may have the best – of love and care, of security and innocence.

It is undeniable however, that what we call our personality today is the fossilized remains of the child that we once were. Fossils help derive crucial information about the form and evolutionary relationships of the organism under consideration. On a similar vein, one’s general personality can be, for the most part, traced back to the influences of people we met and experiences we had as children.

Repressed fears, harmful tendencies, repetitive self-demeaning activities could all be manifestations of traumatic or shocking childhood experiences. You may not wish to revisit them nor is it healthy to brood over them, but to acknowledge and familiarize yourself with your innermost self can provide slow yet long-lasting solutions. [This post deals with that]

For me, the word conjures another word – Narnia. More than a word, for those who dreamed endlessly of discovering magic. Despite growing up on copious amounts of Hogwarts fantasies ( I’m still waiting for the owl 😂), the chance finding of a world inside a wardrobe is a more accurate representation of magic I grew to love.

There is also something else that comes with childhood, something we forget in the grind of everyday life. The things that filled us with wonder and awe as children, even though they are still around us, cease to evoke such feelings.

Living life with a sense of amazement help us see things we normally wouldn’t see. The beauty of sunrise or sunset, the music of a stream, or perhaps the warmth of a hug from someone you love – these are all such powerful reminders of beauty and magic, right under our noses.

Somewhere along the way as we grew up, we were taught – either by others or by ourselves – that these were ‘normal’ and henceforth, mundane.

Christmas is the perfect time to dust away any social conditioning. Not just because it comes along during the most beautiful time of the year, but also because it celebrates the birth of a child who brought with him the message of love. Because it reminds you to give and receive, to love and remember.

For my part, I never really let go of the possibility that I may see something I’ve never before seen, or go somewhere I never even knew existed.

I do believe that anything is possible, because we haven’t explored every realm in this universe just yet. We don’t even know our own bodies inside out – science discovers new pathways and mechanisms, occasionally organs too, in this mysterious and miraculous container of life.

Because no matter how ignorant I am, I do know one thing – magic is real.

Happy Holidays, everyone. 😊

13 thoughts on “The Inner Child

  1. Wow! 😍 Firstly, thank you so much, thank you so so much. My questions, a post for each? I feel so honored, I do not know what to say. This is the kindest thing anyone has ever done for me.

    I don’t think I’d be able to make it without the wonder. I dare not even think about what it would be like without that feeling of ‘what will I discover today’

    You are one of the most quotable people I know. I should compile all these words and immortalize them,

    Thank you again 😊❤

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    1. Thank YOU, for the invitation to answer your questions. 🙂 I went with this one first because, you know, muse loved it.
      And that’s wonderful to hear, you know. To hear sane, sensible people say that. 😀 It gives me hope. 😂😂 I suppose you keeping your eyes open to discover new things, gives you all these great ideas on what you put on your blog, ha? 🙂 And generally just makes you one of those people who give off the ‘intelligent-conversation-vibes’.
      Again, you’re too kind, my friend. 🙂 But thank you. You make blogging an experience in the truest sense of the word.
      Thank you, once again! 🙂

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      1. We always trust muse 😁
        We are here, just hidden away in our safe havens.
        Hhmm, I never thought of it
        that way, I guess you are right, discovery breeds ideas.
        Aaw, you picking that up means you are of the same mind.
        There is no need really☺️expériences are meant to be shared and I’m glad to share this one with you.
        The honor is all mine.

        I’m looking forward to reading the next ones

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      2. Right again.. 2018, thanks for the new blogger friend, hah. And happy new year in advance! 😀 I do hope 2019 opens up new opportunities to share experiences and learn new things. 🙂


    1. I thought it deserved the effort. 🙂 Thank you so much!
      And yes! It’s great to meet you, too. 😀 It’s always wonderful to find someone who shares our childhood muse. -Happy tears-
      And happy new year to you, do have a great one! 🙂

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  2. This was lovely to read! Another Narnia fan? 😀 So great to meet like-minded folks!

    If you like, I was thinking of nominating you for another Sunshine Blogger Award (if you wanted, obviously). There’s no need to take part in the personal quiz if you’d prefer not, but would you like your blog signposted so new readers could check it out?

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    1. Oh how wonderful to see another Narnian! 😀 Never mind that we’re mortals, we must have wandered through Narnia at least once in our heads! So glad to meet you too. 🙂
      You’re too kind to think so, and I really don’t mind questions. I either use them as prompts for whole posts (like this one) or just shoot away at the answers. It all depends on the muse. 🙂
      But I love writing, so I truly don’t mind. And if I may make bold assumptions from what I read on your blog, it appears you’ll have some interesting ones too!
      Thank you so much for stopping by. I really appreciate it. 🙂

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